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Relationship Complaints That Signal Divorce

A relationship that is headed for divorce will show signs of multiple challenges and issues. If you notice difficult complaints that are not easy to resolve, then your relationship may be in danger of divorce.

These complaints and issues can be signs of an impending divorce:  

  1. You feel the love and spark is gone in your relationship. One of the most frequent complaints is that love has faded or diminished.

  • It’s normal for relationships to change over time. Because as humans we are continually growing and expanding. We are energetic beings and our frequencies and vibrations change every minute depending on our thoughts, feelings, and beliefs.  Your love will also change.  It may feel more like an ebb and flow. The first bloom of romance will change into a deeper kind of love. But it shouldn’t disappear. A relationship that has lost its love is in danger of separation and divorce.  

  1. Mutual resentment has reached high levels. Anger and resentment can do immense damage to a relationship. If you both resent each other, then it’s a strong sign the marriage is in trouble.  

  1. You feel criticized all the time. If one partner feels criticized by the other, this can lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms and anger.    

  • In a healthy relationship, you may occasionally criticize each other and argue. However, if the criticisms are constant and feel overwhelming, there’s a bigger issue.  

  • An unhealthy relationship can be created by one partner constantly belittling the other partner and making them feel worthless. This type of emotional abuse can have a long-lasting impact on a women’s self-confidence and self-esteem.   

  1. You regret sharing your feelings. If you regret or are afraid to open and talk to your partner, then it is a sign the relationship has serious issues.  

  1. Trust is missing from the relationship. A couple that has lost trust is in danger of divorce.  

  • Trust is a key foundation of marriages, so relationships can crumble if it disappears. Cheating and infidelity make it difficult and impossible for many women to trust a partner again.   

  • Do you question your partner’s motives and suggestions? Do you worry that they are cheating on you? Do you believe your partner no longer wants you to be successful? These are common examples of missing trust in a relationship.  

  • A lack of trust means that you don’t feel comfortable being vulnerable around your partner. This can hinder you from sharing your deepest thoughts.  

  1. You struggle to resolve your differences. Do you feel that you have the same argument with your partner all the time, yet you can’t solve anything?  

  • In a relationship, it’s common for one or both of you to bring up the same issues. However, eventually, progress has to be made in resolving the issues. Otherwise, it starts to affect the marriage. If you don’t make any progress, then you’re at risk of stagnating in the issue.  

  • It’s important to be able to compromise, forgive, apologize, and move on.    

  • Relationships that continue to have the same arguments with no resolutions can suffer from distance and resentment. You’re at risk of losing the closeness and emotional connection you have with your partner.  

  • A negative pattern can form that leads to frequent arguments that don’t get solved. Over time, this can tear apart your marriage and lead to divorce.  

Before a divorce occurs, you may notice multiple signs that your relationship is suffering. By paying attention to the complaints and signs, you may be able to work on positive resolutions to your challenges instead of divorce.

As a CDC Certified Divorce Coach and Certified Law of Attraction Coach, I assist women in deciding if divorce is really what they want or desire. It is important to take full responsibility for their own words, thoughts, beliefs, and actions that may have contributed to the loss of the relationship. Otherwise, you just keep creating and getting the same results repeatedly. That is also why I use Reiki energy and Healy microcurrent therapy to help heal and break free of the old self-limiting chords and patterns. This is extremely beneficial so you can manifest and create a better relationship with yourself and others.



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